How to get better over 2nd wave of backlash after breakup?
- 06 Oct, 2020
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Let go
Let yourself feel all these emotions of hurt
Let yourself feel all these emotions of sorrow
There’s no use of denying them
Just know that it is over and she is a thing of the past
We are both doing our best moving on and we are doing our best
Don’t compete
Let yourself feel the emotion of wanting revenge
Let yourself feel the motions but not act on them
There’s no need to compete
There’s no one to prove in this world
There’s no need to prove to anyone
Just let go, feel all these sorrows
You may have missed a good one is how you feel
If you went back out with her, she may have been the same
It is through this painful heart break that she was able to grow
I hope this is a great lesson to her and to myself as well
Stick with your decision, be confident in your decision and know that it will all work out in the end
There’s no right or wrong answer, you just don’t know
Wrong decision may even lead you down to a better path
It all depends on how you interpret and act on these situations too
The reason why you are not able to open your heart up completely to someone new is because of this
Your chapter with Christine has not closed completely and there’s still regret on your decision
You still love her very much
You still miss her
It’s already too late. You already made a decision to move on and acted on it
I have a feeling of regret
Regret of missing her and how good we had it in the past
Regret of never being able to find another woman like her ever again
Regret of not being able to find another INFJ free spirit like her
I love her independent soul nature
She is so innocent that she’s attractive
She is strong in her own ways and I hope she is ok
First, I want to make sure I am ok before anything else
I missed you and I loved you Christine
I can never deny these feelings for you
Just like these feelings from the past with my very first gf
Don’t keep her when you don’t want to be with her anymore
Let her be free
Let her be the pure soul that she is
She is beautiful and let her be that
She will find another wonderful man one day and I will be hurt watching her and wishing that was me again
Because I wanted to be by her side
I wanted to love her
I wanted to be together with her and dance with her
These were all the desires I wanted with her and I was suppressing them
I don’t want to get hurt again
I don’t want her to break me up and let me go
I always promised her that I will be there for her
Only to find out that she had left me first then wanting to come back to me
I do not want to go back. I was afraid of getting hurt all over again by her carelessness of her placing fake importantance on the relationship
I felt that she would let me go once again
I felt that the trust was broken
No matter how great we had it, it was only great because I only remembered the good things we had
She has her bad side and I have mine
Guess the worst case scenario was good enough for us to split apart and that is that
Damn this hurts so fucking much
No need to wonder how she is doing
Just focus on yourself and grow
Don’t stop the flow of emotions
Close your eyes
Let these pass through you
I (myself) love you Yongyi
I am right beside you and so is everyone else
Remember your vision of entrepreneurship, love, and romance
Have the unwavering faith in your vision and never let go
Have faith in yourself
This will all work out in the end